Is it rude to refuse food in Japan?

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asked Oct 26 in Other- Society & Culture by Goldenrad (940 points)
Is it rude to refuse food in Japan?

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answered Oct 27 by Chambliss (58,300 points)
It is rude to refuse food in Japan, unless you've already been given plenty of food to eat.

In Japan refusing food is considered rude when it's offered by a friend, a host or during a business meeting as it can be seen as you rejecting hospitality and so it's more polite to accept the food, even if you don't plan to eat it all.

Or you can politely decline with phrases like "Thank you, I'm full," instead of just a direct no.

If you can't eat something because you have allergies, are full or dislike it, it's often better to accept the food and not eat it and you can also just give a gentle refusal.

Leaving a little food on your plate, especially rice, can also signal that you're satisfied and don't want more, as opposed to finishing everything, which could be interpreted as asking for a second helping.

Refusing food or drink that is offered by a business associate can be particularly rude and can negatively affect any business dealings in Japan.

It's considered rude while eating in Japan to walk while eating, stick the chopsticks upright in rice, make loud chewing noises or burping when eating and it's also rude to pass food from chopstick to chopstick in Japan while eating.

Other rude behaviors while eating in Japan are resting your chopsticks on the bowl, stabbing your food with chopsticks as well as blowing your nose at the table.

When in Japan do not stick your chopsticks upright in your rice as it's a funeral custom and do not pass your food directly from one pair of chopsticks to another, which is also associated with funerals.

While you can drink coffee or other beverages on the street in Japan it's also considered rude to walk and drink coffee or other beverages in Japan.

It's not illegal to drink coffee or other beverages while walking in Japan, but it's simply seen as rude so it's best to avoid it.

The custom in Japan when drinking coffee and other beverages, is to finish the coffee or other drinks when standing near where you purchased the coffee or other beverage.

Then you can dispose of the empty cup or trash where you're located.

The main reason for not drinking your coffee or other beverage while walking in Japan is because of a lack of public trash cans, which means that you would have to carry your trash with you.

Although I've seen some people dispose of their cups and cans and other trash around trees etc, when I visited Japan but it's not what you should do.

Drink your coffee or beverage near the vending machine or convenience store where you bought it and then dispose of the trash properly and use the bins that are provided at the store or the vending machine to dispose of the trash.

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